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This week our questions come from author Debbie (Kate) Robbins
1. How much of yourself do you write into your characters? Or do you write characters completely opposite to you?
I'd have to say ... both. I write a lot of flawed characters, which I can relate to myself. I don't think a character has to have a traumatic or horrendous past to be flawed. I don't think a girl has to go through something as terrible as being raped to have intimacy issues, and a man doesn't have to have had his heart broken to have trust issues. Tiny mistakes can create havoc in your life, and all my characters fuck up from time to time, hence, flaws.
My gals aren't always sweet. Sometimes they are bitchy, smart-mouthed, deviant, or just plain stupid. I write my heroes with familiarity. I don't know one man in my life that is anywhere near being perfect. Frankly, I'd have to sift really far to find myself a true gentleman out of my stock. Sad, but that's my people. They're gruff and rowdy and foul-mouthed and selfish. But they have a heart of gold, a tenderness that comes out when something, or someone finds their way in there. Maybe a gal, maybe their kids, maybe their dogs. Whatever it is, when they love, they love hard, but it's not usually really sweet and pretty.
So I guess that's where a part of me comes through. Familiarity. When I try to write a character that knows the ropes, follows the rules, and treats others with kid gloves, I squick out. It sounds ridiculous, and I red line that crap faster than I can finish a bowl of chips and salsa. (I can murder chips and salsa, just to be clear.)
I have a potty mouth. I've made so many mistakes and bad decisions in my life it's not even funny. I have a really bad temper, and very little patience. I'm pretty much the character that makes every one pull their hair out and yell. But I think there's some good qualities about me, too. I hope I instill that into my characters. They may walk out of the house with food in their teeth, mismatched socks, and a string of curse words that could make a pirate blush, but they will stop to help that little old lady that just face-planted off the curb. Like I say... it's all about the heart.
However, I do like to write heroines that are kind and centered and sweet, and strong. I like to write characters with a lot of confidence, which I certainly do not have. Those self-assured girls are my favorite to write. I feel powerful giving them big balls. Of course, I find a lot of happiness giving the sweet girls the action they deserve, too.
2. Has your writing helped you see events in your own life clearer?
I think it has. When I write, I feel powerful over all the things that have held me back my entire life. No matter what, I am in charge. I can either write, or not write, and it's no one's business. No one gets to dictate what I say, what I write, what I feel. It's really the only thing that is just about me, and I've given it to myself.
I love writing so much, and I think since I've been writing seriously, continuously... I sort of see where I let myself down in the past. The best part about that is that I see where I went wrong, and I learned from my mistakes. If it's important, you can make time. If it makes you feel good, it's important.
There are some moments I would have done differently in my life, and I think writing gives me this amazing opportunity to put everything to rest in a neat and tidy manner. Life sure as hell isn't like that, and this helps me put that in perspective.
Everything happens for a reason and all that jazz.
3. Have you written a character with more of your personal characteristics than any other? What are they?
I guess I would have to say Jayne. She's a little bitchy, a lot stubborn, pretty badass, and she'd die for the people she loves--literally. So yeah... I think in that way, we're the same. I only wish I had her ass. Jayne's got a great ass ;)
Thank you so much for stopping by once again! I hope you had fun!
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See ya next week!!
5/27/2014 05:44:02 am
I you're Jayne, then I know exactly why I like you so much
5/27/2014 02:44:46 pm
5/27/2014 06:11:30 am
I loved your answers, but I loved your pics even more. Love the girl and the gator. The rest of the crew should probably keep an eye out to the two of us ever meeting up in a person...especially if a bar were involved...and cover models. :)
5/27/2014 02:49:03 pm
lol! I love that little girl so much too. I've had her as my screensaver for ever! I think I like your style lady! Hope one day we can put our shenanigans to the test!
5/27/2014 07:09:47 am
5/27/2014 10:07:57 am
Jami! What great insight about the small things creating havoc in a person's life. Great, great post.
5/27/2014 10:40:05 am
Flawed characters are the best, they are more real to life than those characters without flaws. Great blog!!!
5/27/2014 02:43:23 pm
Loved your answers. And who doesn't love a character who's rough around the edges, but has a heart of gold?!
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