NEGATIVITYNegativity. It's something we all encounter every day. There is always someone with a shitty attitude, a crabby cashier, a ragey driver, a grumpy boss. And sometimes we just wake up on the wrong side of the bed.
I know I do--often. But the thing is, it is in our control to scram that shit right out of our day. Of course, some days it takes more effort than others, but it can be done. I find that the more time I spend on Social Media, the worse it gets. There is always someone stirring up some drama, be it big or small, misery loves company. I however, hate that. I am guilty of shoving negative thoughts down my own throat. The self loathing, doubt, stress, loneliness, sadness, and general grumps. I so do not like being dragged down because someone said something to somebody and now everybody needs to whip out the torches and burn that shit down. Blah. Blah. Blah. My social tribe mentality went the way of my Aqua Net. I barely gave a crap about that when I was a teenager. As a grown woman, I so do not have the time or energy. One of my favorite de-stressors is Pinterest. It's also the best time-zapping, mind-numbing, motivation-sucking piece of shit ever, but it does help me just... chillax sometimes. My brain barely has to be plugged in to enjoy. I love finding little uplifting quotes. That, and cupcake recipes and pictures of random pink things, but quotes. The quotes. I have mini epiphanies when I find a good one, and you know, sometimes, that's all you need. A teeny, tiny little epiphany to set you back on track. These are some of my favorites. We'll call it the good shit Greatest Hits. Bye for now! HAVE A GREAT, WONDERFUL, AMAZING, SUNSHINEY, KICK ASS kind of day. XO Jami
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MANHANDLE
I talked a little bit about manhandling in a previous post, but obviously it's something I think deserves a post all its own.
God, how I love a caveman. When I read, if there is even an ounce of hesitation from the hero, any wishy-washy should I or shouldn't I, I am like... flounce. Forget it. I need a man of action. Take what you want, ,be a man. Show that gal what you've got. I know, I know... Here's the thing--you can be a strong, independent woman, a take charge gal in and out of the bedroom, and still want a man to throw down and get to business. I love to read about men that are confident, arrogant and completely enraptured with their lady. Men are notoriously difficult to communicate with. Come on, you all know it's true. That take charge aggressiveness is sometimes the first click and clue a gal gets that tells her, hey, this dude is actually into me. The build up in stories is usually the best part about a budding relationship. All that sexual tension building up between the characters is hot, but cat and mouse is only cute for so long. In my world, about a minute and a half. I start to lose interest if they pussy-foot around too long. It's like, COME ON. You either want it, or you don't. Be adults. Hug it out. Preferably naked. Aggressive characters aren't for everyone, this I know. However, this girl loves them. Naughty, bossy and sexy. Those are my favorites. How about you? How do you like your men? |